When you search for family caregiver support information, you tend to find answers in this order:1) how caregivers can support a loved one with cancer2) how caregivers can support themselves3) how others can support cancer patients and caregivers There’s little to no discussion or even acknowledgment of how cancer patients could and should support their …
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I’ve written about how caregivers aren’t the heroes and my struggle with wanting credit for my role as a caregiver in the face of my husband’s incredible resilience, determination and strength. But is what I do worthy of wearing the cape? Am I a hero too? Let’s examine: Carrying the load vs just getting through …
In my caregiving experience, the patient is an absolute superhero and the caregiver generally gets relegated to something more along the lines of an afterthought. This is particularly true with something like cancer, which is always talked about in terms of a “battle.” Patients are “fighters,” who are “winning” or “losing,” who are “survivors,” etc. …
As I’ve said before, if there’s one thing you’re guaranteed to hear as a caregiver, it’s “you are so strong.” It’s a nice thought with a beautiful intention behind it. And while yes, it’s the thought that counts and yes, the intention is a good one, there are also a whole bunch of reasons why …
I’ve written about how we learned my husband had cancer, but as any caregiver will tell you, diagnosis is only the first part of the story. And this one hasn’t even gotten there yet. We left off with the night we got home from the hospital after Antonio’s surgery to remove a tumor from his …
If there’s one thing you are guaranteed to hear as a caregiver, it’s “You are so strong.” It’s a common sentiment shared by people who want to offer words of encouragement and respect. It’s meant as a compliment, a testament to your never ending love, energy and dedication to and for your patient and loved …
