I’ve written about how caregivers aren’t the heroes and my struggle with wanting credit for my role as a caregiver in the face of my husband’s incredible resilience, determination and strength. But is what I do worthy of wearing the cape? Am I a hero too? Let’s examine: Carrying the load vs just getting through …
In my caregiving experience, the patient is an absolute superhero and the caregiver generally gets relegated to something more along the lines of an afterthought. This is particularly true with something like cancer, which is always talked about in terms of a “battle.” Patients are “fighters,” who are “winning” or “losing,” who are “survivors,” etc. …
If there’s one thing you are guaranteed to hear as a caregiver, it’s “You are so strong.” It’s a common sentiment shared by people who want to offer words of encouragement and respect. It’s meant as a compliment, a testament to your never ending love, energy and dedication to and for your patient and loved …
I’m willing to bet there’s not a single caregiver out there who hasn’t been overwhelmed by GUILT at some point during the journey. Whether you’re caring for an elderly parent, a loved one going through cancer or other life-changing diagnosis, a child with special needs . . . hell, you could be taking care of …
